Monday, December 22, 2008

"Live For Her/His Life"

This is my step forward in making an emotional Stuff about a word called LOVE. Here I am more insist on relational bondage and why it gets fail again and again. This would’ve happened in everyone’s life Without knowing any valid reasons. Yes! I am talking about misunderstandings, divorce, illegal relationships and much more regarding this lovable relation.
I have decided to make a emotional stuff to give a better understanding about bondage in life, exclusively among the partners. I am searching for a meaningful thirsty solution to come out with a conclusion about the sadness happened to everyone, and I got a beautiful line of story and a solution for this problem. Everyone had problem in their previous love relations, even they would’ve reached their extremes. I understand those tears, hurts ,pains ,illness and everything we had without we want .
But Still……………………………………. Love is Again Meaningful and Life Is More Beautiful.
How do I know if I am with the right person? ,Everyone will arrive with this question after a long mile in their life travel.But this is a wrong question at the right time. Bit confused, that’s ok…start reading this small journey of my , it’s very important because one day you may search for these words.
Here Continues………………
Every relationship has a cycle…….
In the beginning you fall in love with your partner , You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and want their shoulders to share.In fact, it’s a completely natural ,spontaneous experience and it happens continuously in your life before marriage….even after marriage You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.
When u start loving someone whom you admire…… It seems that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.Falling in love is just a spontaneous experience, it’s a blossom which gives you a cherish in your life, but not throughout your life. It’s a triggering event when a action occurs, something like a relativity theory not exactly a chemistry.
To be elaborate when u get admired with a girl, you will fall in love immediately , this degree of love may varies upon persons but intensity is same.But after a few months or years of being together, the degree of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship, at that time every event hurts for the every action done by the opponent. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry at subsequent stages.
Here what the problem starts……………….
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the degree of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown. The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found. People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But when time goes on you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (A Phrase from “Art Of Love Making”): The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.
To maintain your relationship ,You have to work on every day. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands everything which you feel it’s important for you but not much important than your partner(Everyone should understand this…nothing is important than your partner).You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do with your partner ,just as there are in physical laws like relativity theory and Of course there are also relationship theory. If you know and apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling. As everyone says this “love feeling” may fade out when years go on, but making decision on your love will never fade.
Unknowingly You determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO!!

Love until you get a partner who accepts you degree of intensity, but let live one life with him/her without giving a reason to get away him/her.Give a bondage to your relationship and live a life for him/her.
I am expecting suggestions about my words that you read. Kindly Post your Comments.

Monday, December 8, 2008

Education For The Poor Towards Reservation System

Since it was in my mind for a long term, even though the fumes got washed out, I thought of writing about it in my blog….Yes ! It’s all about reservation system.There are lot of discrimination & conflicts about this topic so called reservation and Now it’s being dumped without no reasons. Say “No” to reservation is obviously a Degradation for a country like India ,since we are in development stage. Before coming into reservation system , we have to travel a lot into countries growth and development.
Even now in all Private sectors like banking, Insurance and all others firms, people who are in top level management are of forward class who fall under just 15-20 % of our Indian population, Whereas people who are of below backward class were occupied in top level management is not even greater than 2% of the whole. Now you may arise with a question of having reservation system ,Yes ! having reservation is a must thing, but how to handle the reservation system is the main agenda here.
When we look into the below backward class peoples, they are not up to the remark of having a proper education so as to come to the line of reservation counter. No politician is thinking about providing a good & free education to these peoples ,allocating ideal fund for this education system is also become a problematic thing. Since now government is concentrating more on infrastructure development and allocating enormous fund for that is of course a mere waste thing for a country like India, until otherwise the education level of our population should reach a remarkable position without any segregation in
religion & caste. Or even bisecting infrastructural fund for educational purpose will gives a shaky hand in mutual development towards countries growth.
Government should establish a non-government bodies to look into this education system. Government should have a tax exceptional agreement with private concerns to fund for this education system. As Infosys is doing a great work in consolidating this chapter by providing free computer education for rural students. Big Public Limited & private bodies like TATA, Reliance, WIPRO, CTS, ICICI and all other concerns should step forward in looking out this issue sincerely and government should have a exceptional agreement with these bodies by providing discounts in doing better business. This will work better in promoting better education for the poor and backward class students.
Once we achieved the above proposals or even give up a start to the respective activities ,we can very well follow up with the reservation system and can sustain a mutual growth in education and also countries growth. If this comes handy ,one day in India we will not be having this reservation system, but it’s not a short term process as we all know , lets stand together in achieving the same. Every well positioned citizen of India having responsibility in educating at least on poor or below backward student. Kindly do that. Be a responsible Indian.