"Live For Her/His Life"

This is my step forward in making an emotional Stuff about a word called LOVE. Here I am more insist on relational bondage and why it gets fail again and again. This would’ve happened in everyone’s life Without knowing any valid reasons. Yes! I am talking about misunderstandings, divorce, illegal relationships and much more regarding this lovable relation.
I have decided to make a emotional stuff to give a better understanding about bondage in life, exclusively among the partners. I am searching for a meaningful thirsty solution to come out with a conclusion about the sadness happened to everyone, and I got a beautiful line of story and a solution for this problem. Everyone had problem in their previous love relations, even they would’ve reached their extremes. I understand those tears, hurts ,pains ,illness and everything we had without we want .But Still……………………………………. Love is Again Meaningful and Life Is More Beautiful.
How do I know if I am with the right person? ,Everyone will arrive with this question after a long mile in their life travel.But this is a wrong question at the right time. Bit confused, that’s ok…start reading this small journey of my , it’s very important because one day you may search for these words.
Here Continues………………
Every relationship has a cycle…….
In the beginning you fall in love with your partner , You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and want their shoulders to share.In fact, it’s a completely natural ,spontaneous experience and it happens continuously in your life before marriage….even after marriage You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.
When u start loving someone whom you admire…… It seems that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.Falling in love is just a spontaneous experience, it’s a blossom which gives you a cherish in your life, but not throughout your life. It’s a triggering event when a action occurs, something like a relativity theory not exactly a chemistry.
To be elaborate when u get admired with a girl, you will fall in love immediately , this degree of love may varies upon persons but intensity is same.But after a few months or years of being together, the degree of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship, at that time every event hurts for the every action done by the opponent. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry at subsequent stages.
Here what the problem starts……………….
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the degree of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown. The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found. People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But when time goes on you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (A Phrase from “Art Of Love Making”): The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.
To maintain your relationship ,You have to work on every day. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands everything which you feel it’s important for you but not much important than your partner(Everyone should understand this…nothing is important than your partner).You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do with your partner ,just as there are in physical laws like relativity theory and Of course there are also relationship theory. If you know and apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling. As everyone says this “love feeling” may fade out when years go on, but making decision on your love will never fade.
Unknowingly You determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO!!

Love until you get a partner who accepts you degree of intensity, but let live one life with him/her without giving a reason to get away him/her.Give a bondage to your relationship and live a life for him/her.
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